“How do I attract a high-quality woman” There’s probably no question that hits my Direct Message box on Twitter more than that one. So, I thought it was probably time to address the question. Here’s the short answer: you’ll never attract a high-quality woman until you radiate your mission. And there’s no life hack to radiating a message; it has to be deep inside of you. Here’s my video on the details:
Ultimately, if you’re not willing to become a high-quality man, you will not attract the type of woman you’re looking for. That’s just not how life works. But here’s the good news: you don’t have to be a finished product. When you radiate your mission, women are attracted to you because of the path you’re on.
You can barely have started, but if your mission and purpose is real inside of you, it will come out and people will pick up on it. Eventually, that mission will resonate in the heart of some woman, and she’s going to want to jump on board.
Here’s the overlooked truth that I didn’t mention in the video: the need to radiate your mission to attract a high-quality woman does NOT end when you get married. I see too many men who started off with a plan decide to hit cruise control. They decided that they’d already gotten the girl, so they didn’t need to keep getting better, to keep pursuing their dream. That fact will go a long way in explaining the high rates of (1) divorce and (2) unhappy marriages.
We do our wives a disservice when we stop pursuing something large and great, and instead decide to coast through life. So, whether you’re married or single, find (or rediscover) your mission and get moving. This is the man’s life. Godspeed.
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