Picking a wife is the most important decision a man will ever make. “Is she the one? How do I know if she’s the one?” These are questions almost every man ends up asking himself. While divorce rates are the lowest in 40 years, it’s still wise to put serious thought into who you’re going to marry. Because the goal of marriage is not simply to avoid a divorce. The goal is to have a relationship that thrives. Here are five principles you can use to make a solid choice.